Rising Phoenix Intuitive Wellness
The Tender Ground
A 3 or 6-month container for parents who are healing themselves while raising their children — and ready to break the cycle for good.
I'm Ready to BeginYou love them fiercely.
And sometimes you lose it.
And you hate yourself for it.
The yelling. The snapping. The moment you hear your parent's voice come out of your mouth and freeze. You swore it would be different. You are trying everything — and still, the reactivity shows up.
Here's what I want you to hear: that's not a failure. That's a wound that hasn't been tended yet.
Generational patterns live in the body. In the nervous system. In the stories we inherited before we were old enough to question them. You can't think your way out of a triggered response — and you can't parent from a regulated place you haven't built yet. That's exactly what we build here.
"You are parenting your children. You are parenting yourself. We hold both — at the same time, with equal tenderness."
Not sure where to begin?
Get a taste of this work first
Before stepping into a full container, start with one of these entry points. Real tools, real shifts — designed to give you a felt sense of what's possible before you commit to more.
Before you read further
Is this you?
This is for you if...
- You're a parent of children of any age who wants to show up differently
- You recognize your reactivity has roots in your own childhood and you're ready to go there
- You've maybe done therapy and are ready for something deeper and more embodied
- You want to understand your kids — and yourself — better
- You're ready to take accountability with compassion, not shame
- You want to create a genuinely different future for your family
This is not for you if...
- You're looking for parenting scripts or behavioral techniques only
- You're not open to looking at your own childhood wounds as part of the work
- You want someone to tell you what's wrong with your kids, not yourself
- You're not ready to practice self-compassion as part of the process
What actually shifts
What parents experience in this container
In you, in your home, in your relationship with your children.
Less reactivity, more presence
The triggers lose their grip. You stop going from zero to a hundred and start having a pause — a breath — between the stimulus and your response. You're actually there with your kids, not just physically.
Understanding yourself and your kids
You start to see what's happening beneath the surface — for both of you. The power struggles make sense. The patterns become readable. And when you understand, you can respond instead of react.
Fewer power struggles
When your nervous system is regulated, the whole family system shifts. What used to escalate starts to soften — not because your kids changed, but because you did.
Repairing ruptures — and knowing how
The repair becomes natural. You stop being paralyzed by guilt after a hard moment and learn how to come back to your kids in a way that builds trust instead of eroding it.
Feeling like yourself again
Not just Mom. Not just Dad. You. Parenting from a full self rather than a depleted one changes the entire texture of your home.
Breaking the cycle — for real
The patterns that were handed to you stop here. Your children grow up in a different emotional environment than the one you survived — because you did the work to make it so.
Already completed Reclaim Your Calm?
The Tender Ground is your natural next step. You've found your regulation — now we go all the way in. Into identity. Into the generational story. Into who you get to become as a parent when you've truly healed what was handed to you.
The Phoenix Method
Two healings.
One container.
Every modality serves both the parent you are and the child you were. The work happens on both levels, simultaneously.
NLP & Identity Work
Somatic Therapy
Breathwork
Nervous System Regulation
Human Design
Inner Child Work
Reparenting
Intuitive Energy Work
The Container
Choose Your Depth
Both containers include weekly 1:1 sessions and ongoing Telegram support. Generational healing takes time — most parents who are truly committed choose the 6-month.
3-Month Container
12 Weekly Sessions
$4,500
Consistent, deep nervous system work
- 12 x 1:1 sessions with Alyssa
- Telegram support between sessions
- Reactivity & regulation focus
- Inner child + reparenting work
- Human Design integration
6-Month Container
24–26 Weekly Sessions
$7,650
Saves you $1,350 vs. two 3-month rounds
- 24–26 x 1:1 sessions with Alyssa
- Telegram support between sessions
- Full generational pattern healing
- Inner child + reparenting work
- Human Design integration
- Identity-level transformation arc
Alyssa & Emi — Sedona, AZ
Meet your guide
Alyssa Vee
Psychosomatic Therapist · Embodiment Coach · Mentor
NLP · Somatics · Human Design · Breathwork
I didn't set out to become a parenting coach. I set out to become a better mother.
I noticed it in myself first — a sharpness I didn't like. A reactivity I recognized, not because I'd studied it, but because I'd lived on the receiving end of it. My mother was a cycle breaker in her own right, growing up with an alcoholic, narcissistic parent and doing her best to leave that behind. She did — mostly. But patterns have a way of shapeshifting. Different addictions. Softer edges. Still, something carried through. And I started to see it moving through me too.
That recognition — not blame, just clear-eyed honesty — is what started everything. A decade of working on my relationship with my mother. My own inner work: NLP, somatics, Human Design, mindfulness, breathwork. Learning to regulate instead of react. And somewhere in that process, combined with years of clinical work with dozens of parents navigating the same patterns, The Tender Ground was born.
My daughter Emi is my biggest motivation. We live full-time in our RV now — on the road, homeschooling, unlearning together. It's not perfect. But it's intentional. And intentional is everything.
The karma has to stop somewhere. I'm committed to making sure it stops with me — and to helping every parent who walks through this container feel the same freedom on the other side.
The cycle ends here.
Your children are watching you heal.
Apply below and we'll get on a call to talk through what you're carrying and what's right for your family. I'll meet you exactly where you are. 🙏
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